chuksdafe: WHAT YOU NEED TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.

chuksdafe: WHAT YOU NEED TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.

LOVE IS NOT JUST ENOUGH

Have you  been disappointed by someone you loved and someone who claims to love you? do you wish to know why things never worked out despite the amount of love flying in the air over your relationship? then your searches are over because you are obviously at the right place of help and I assure you all your curiosity would be addressed before the end of this post. 

To understand this post better, I would love you to review our previous topic on WHAT YOU NEED TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE  if you are reading our post for the first time because this publication is a follow up topic.

As earlier stated,LOVE is the essential major ingredient or requirement  in starting a relationship just like you would need MELON as the major ingredient in preparation of a melon soup but sad enough only melon would not give you a melon soup without fire,pot,water,fish,pepper and some other vital ingredients required in making a nice Soup. Hence love is not just enough to make you achieve that superb relationship you desire even though it's the major required essential ingredient needed to start up.

A great number of people in thinking that LOVE is all that matters have ignorantly sacrificed love on the alter of lack of character or attitude, lack of self control, anger, insincerity,lack of understanding, ungratefulness, lack of communication, lack of prudence in spending to mention but a few only to end up being heart broken. True love is never meant to make anyone senseless because you need your senses to give right judgment at any given time.

        Truth is, LOVE, as strong as it is,can easily be choked to death by bad habits and behaviours. We to need to consciously indentify these bad habits that chokes love and weed them off our love gardens. Some people in the name of love is all that matters prevents their partners from  talking about their past and also never deemed it fit to talk about their past that their partners should know about. The irony of it all is that some of those past may come hunting later and may cause problems if not handled with care.

In summary,you and your partner  need to understand your yourselves,proper communication is required,don't get provoked and give up at the slightest provocation and never stick to a partner who does same.
Be prudent in your spendings and don't make him or her to do the unexpected in trying to meet your excessive spending needs.

He or she may have weak points but please be patient with such and understand those weak areas are the missing part of him or her that you are to fill to make such person a complete whole.
The areas where we are needed in life and are greatly missed when we are away  are those areas where others can't fill. Take for an example, I'm an electrical engineer and also had a friend who is an automobile engineer,such a person would only need me in the areas of services in my field of expertise and will miss my services when I'm not there but he won't bother an inch in his area of expertise because I don't have anything to contribute.
If your partner is complete in every area then he or she doesn't need you and same goes with you. Anyone coming into your life should come to add something you're lacking.
You need people to love you because you can't love yourself back by filling the place of your lover. So be glad and patient to work on his or her areas of weakness.

Conclusively,all the needed ingredients in preparing a meal might be available but it takes only a good cook to turn those ingredients into a nice meal otherwise you will be having a richly prepared concoction. You must therefore be that good cook or cheff that turns all available ingredients into that desired superb relationship/marriage of your dream.
Wish you a happy love life henceforth as you apply these little tips.

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WHAT YOU NEED TO SUSTAIN A RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.

Did I hear you say LOVE? Well if you did then you seriously need to patiently read this post because you were wrong. To start a relationship you need LOVE but to sustain it, you'll need more than LOVE. Now,I'll give you a practical analogy to help you understand better,lets say you wish to make a melon soup popularly called egusi in Nigerian language,you would need melon as the major ingredient but only melon will not give you melon soup without water,pot,fire,fish,salt,maggi and some other necessary ingredients. MELON is the major ingredient required for the preparation of melon soup just the way LOVE is required to start a relationship but to have the soup prepared,you'll need more than MELON. This is one of the main reason why majority of our young ones get frustrated out of relationships females being the most vulnerable in most cases because they thought it's all about LOVE. Please follow me on this blog because I'll be telling you those important ingredients required in building a successful relationship and marriage in my next post titled (LOVE IS NOT JUST ENOUGH) you'll never get frustrated out of relationship after going through the post. Meet you in the next series & pls don't forget to follow me on this blog.

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